7:45am September 1, 2014









Or, you know, you could just stop saying sorry.

I take it you don’t have anxiety.

You can’t “just stop saying sorry”. You do something, something so little, like accidentally bump into someone. You feel horrible about it. Your brain starts panicking and you have trouble trying to breathe. You stutter an apology. They say it’s okay, but you accidentally do it again, and you apologize again. They just say “Aha, you can stop saying sorry.” And you feel horrible that you’ve probably made them angry or upset, so you mutter out an apology for the third stupid time, and they just say to stop saying sorry. Stop saying sorry. 

You can’t just tell someone to stop saying you’re sorry.

I want that comment on flyers so I can hang them in my school

reblogging this one for the GOOD commentary.

If you’re going to tell someone to stop saying sorry say, “You don’t have to apologize to me.” and smile. If they say sorry again just say, “You’re fine.” and keep smiling and move on. The faster the situation is resolved the faster the person with anxiety can start to calm down. Please don’t get angry at someone for saying sorry, sometimes that’s all the person feels like they can do.

I’ve always been really bad about this and as a kid I’d always do it around my parents and my mom would always say “STOP SAYING YOURE SORRY.” thank you to the helpful comment.

10:24pm August 31, 2014


my family’s been talking about some scary shit lately, including being behind by a couple months on some of our bills. my job-hunting has been consistently turning up a lot of nothing, likewise to my younger brother’s job hunting, and my mom has seen a huge decrease in her ebay sales.

so please come buy some things from my mother’s ebay store so we can afford to keep having things like electricity and groceries.

8:56pm August 31, 2014


YOU’RE a baby

I’M a baby


8:55pm August 31, 2014

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife. However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighbourhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surrounding families, that he is considered the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters. 

8:54pm August 31, 2014

Mr. Henry Nobley
Austenland, 2013.

8:07pm August 31, 2014








Can we all please take a moment to appreciate Hagrid here? Seriously, everyone always talks about how Harry has no father figure and how terrible it was for Sirius to die because now Harry’s all alone (dont get me wrong, Sirius is my favorite character) but honestly, Hagrid is the best father Harry ever had. He did so much for him, and no one, sometimes not even Harry realizes that. Hagrid gets no where near the mount of credit he deserves. Take a minute and try to imagine where Harry would be with out him and you’ll understand what im talking about.

I think JKR said it was really important to her that Hagrid carried him out of the forest, because he carried him to safety when he was a baby. Hagrid has been there since the beginning, and he was also there at the culmination of Harry’s journey. He’s always cared SO MUCH and been really open with Harry for the most part, which is something Harry needs since people tend to keep secrets from him. Yeah, he’s irresponsible with the monsters, but all of Harry’s father figures were pretty irresponisble, and Hagrid was definitely like, the most solid and reliable out of all of them. And he never left.

im crying

Hagrid was also most like a parent in his correction of Harry. For Sirius and Molly, Harry could do no wrong. Dumbledore saw Harry’s flaws, but he depended on them for his own plans to work.

But Hagrid saw Harry for exactly who he was, good and bad. He was the first to publicly defend Harry’s innocence anytime he got blamed for something he didn’t do; but he was also the first to call Harry out on his treatment of Hermione in PoA. He is consistently honest and forthright in addressing Harry’s behaviour and choices, and always acts in the way he believes will be best for Harry’s growth and especially for his moral development.

Harry is the man he is because of Hagrid. No one else did that for him. 

Awesome point, awesome awesome.

I also think that everyone forgets how much Hagrid went through as well.  I mean yes Sirius was falsely put in Azkaban, but Hagrid was denied his magic, expelled from school and could only get a job working in a school full of people who could do magic. Hagrid couldn’t really work in the muggle world very well, what with being half giant. Yet he never grumbled, he was so kind. Plus he was so gentle and sweet. Not many people could become best friends with an enormous spider and actually care for it. Hagrid cared about everybody and everything, not just Harry even after everything that had happened to him.


kind of makes you wonder why Hagrid wasn’t the bravest man Harry knew and why none of those epilogue children were named for Hagrid

12:05pm August 31, 2014

Favorite Books - The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton

You must learn to know the difference between tales and the truth, my Liza, she would say. Fairy tales have a habit of ending too soon. They never show what happens afterwards when the prince and princess ride off the page.


Favorite Books - The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton

You must learn to know the difference between tales and the truth, my Liza, she would say. Fairy tales have a habit of ending too soon. They never show what happens afterwards when the prince and princess ride off the page.

10:03pm August 30, 2014
We are all enamoured of your personality. xD

WOW you are adorable, this was the exact opposite of a fail :D

9:46pm August 30, 2014
  • Plays: 671
  • Artist: Howard Shore
  • Album: The Lord Of The Rings: The Two Towers - The Complete Recordings
  • Track Name: Théoden King


Théoden King (feat. Miranda Otto)

Bealocwealm hafað fréone frecan forth onsended
giedd sculon singan gléomenn sorgiende
on Meduselde thæt he ma no wære
his dryhtne dyrest and maga deorost.

An evil death has set forth the noble warrior
A song shall sing sorrowing minstrels
in Meduseld that he is no more,
to his lord dearest and kinsmen most beloved.

12:30pm August 30, 2014
maybethings asked: I assume you have Sunday tea with your Wardens

That we have and we’d be very happy if you want to join us in the sunlight where we drink tea, enjoying a free afternoon that’s just there to calm down from the stressful week :D

12:13pm August 30, 2014

Assume one thing about me and I will answer if it is true or not.

12:08pm August 30, 2014
  • Plays: 48
  • Artist: CommanderCousland
  • Album: What's a pecan?
  • Track Name: " do I answer this?"

maleficarmorrigan was so nice and tagged me with this voice meme but I’ll warn you this is mostly me doing “eerrr” and babbling around with a very bad quality >///<


Your name and username.

Where you’re from.

Pronounce the following words: Aunt, Roof, Route, Theater, Iron, Salmon, Caramel, Fire, Water, New Orleans, Pecan, Both, Again, Probably, Alabama, Lawyer, Coupon, Mayonnaise, Pajamas, Caught, Naturally, Aluminium, GIF, Tumblr, Crackerjack, Doorknob, Envelope, GPOY.

What is it called when you throw toilet paper on a house?

What is a bubbly carbonated drink called?

What do you call gym shoes?

What do you call your grandparents?

What do you call the wheeled contraption in which you carry groceries at the supermarket?

What is the thing you change the TV channel with?

Choose a book and read a passage from it.

Do you think you have an accent?

Be a wizard or a vampire?

Do you know anyone on Tumblr in real life?

End audio post by saying any THREE words you want.


I’ll be tagging maybethings, mauve-soul, whyswhoswhats and dontdaresayingitunlessyoumeanit but you all know that you don’t really need to do this >//<

11:25am August 30, 2014
  • Plays: 137
  • Artist: Loreena McKennitt
  • Album: TinkerBell
  • Track Name: To The Fairies They Draw Near, Pt. II
11:07am August 30, 2014

if you’re a DA Keep beta tester who’s upset by the whitewashed artwork in the PAX demo


do your beta testing duty and say something about it on the forum svp

I just did and so have several others, so if you’re shy about being the first to speak up, that’s been done for you

go do the thing